About

A ‘piece for the day’, first published in the Personal column of the classified ad listings in the Rhodesia Herald 35 years ago by my late father John Lentell.

For 1968 to around 1976 John published at his own expense a “piece for the day” in the personals classified column of the Herald national newspaper. Each daily listing was hand typed and delivered to the local press office two to three days in advance of publication. No fax machines, email or Internet in those days!

I’ve kept the carbon copies of his hand delivered, two finger typed classified ad form submissions and in honour of him and his son, JP who never knew him but found me on Facebook in 2008, I am republishing them, one-by-one, on the Internet.

For many years John had threatened to write an entertaining, warts and all biography called Lentell Soup, but he never quite made it.

This is my homage to his memory..

WHO WAS JOHN?

John was born on 9th July, 1926 in Barnstaple in the county of Devon, England of English / Scottish parentage. He spent most of his childhood in Taunton, Somerset and, as was common at the time, he left school at the age of 14 to enter the workforce. Although too young for army service during WW2, he did time with the British army in Palestine around 1946-48.

Despite his apparent English / Scottish genetic ancestry, after I had my DNA analysed at 23andMe it turned out John’s genetic heritage arose out of the Near East and north eastern Africa and his particular Haplogroup is found in northern Iberian populations, especially in Portugal and the Spanish region of Galicia. Which is all the more karmic as throughout his life he enjoyed travelling to Portugal and had a number of close Portuguese friends.

As a young man making his way in early 1950s post-war England, he took the opportunity to seek his fortune in the colonies and migrated to Salisbury, Southern Rhodesia as it was then known.

John was successful in business for a number of  years as the local sales agent for English brands such as Jacob’s Biscuits and Twinings Tea. He met my mother Sylvia, a young biology teacher from Cape Town working in Salisbury, and they were married in 1957. My brothers and I were born in the early 1960s.

After the unilateral declaration of independence (UDI) in November 1965 by the Rhodesian government of the day lead by Ian Smith and the subsequent imposition of trade sanctions by the international community, John was no longer able to continue in business as an import agent.

John and Sylvia had been vocal supporters of the burgeoning African independence political movement and in opposition to and protest at UDI decided to leave Rhodesia. However after an uncertain period of nine months living in Cape Town and with John being blacklisted by the South African government for his political views and activism, the family moved back to Salisbury.

In the following years John sought to establish a new career as an antique dealer, starting a business called Barum and Sarum (Latin for Barnstaple and Salisbury) and later adding a custom jewellery business named Utopia. Whilst these businesses survived for a number of years, it was always a struggle, compounded by the worsening political and economic environment during the escalating years of violence and warfare in the torturous journey of Rhodesia to Zimbabwe, and ultimately they failed.

The continual business struggles, cash drain and inevitable stress contributed to the separation and divorce of John and Sylvia in 1974-75. My brothers and I lived with Sylvia and whilst we regularly saw and spent time with John, he essentially lived alone for the remainder of his life. As an adult experiencing trials and tribulations of my own, I’ve often had heartfelt thoughts about the loneliness and sense of loss of family I know he experienced.

TODAY’S PIECE

Despite increasing eccentricities in his later years, John was always an interesting, sociable, conversational, aspirational man and a loving father. For many years from the late 1960s he published at his own expense a “piece for the day” in the personals classified column of the daily national newspaper, The Rhodesia Herald. Each daily listing was hand typed and usually hand delivered to the local press office two to three days in advance of publication. No fax machines, email or Internet in those days.

It all started out as an alternative and unique personal form of advertising to promote his antique and furniture restoration business, tinged with a healthy dose of self expression and ego at times. You will see many ‘pieces’ that reflect this.

The very first piece was prefaced with:

Thursday 7th December, 1967.

Believe it or not but a commercial enterprise can have a soul – it can think and feel (other than in terms of profit). Confronted by never-ending obstacles, frustrations and adversity, punctuated by moments of sheer joy, we have every reason to think deeply about things and it would seem to be a good idea to share such thoughts. We shall be handicapped by pressures and laziness (or even censorship!) and we might not make it to this column every day but it is worth a try.

Many were perplexed as to why he persisted with it, but equally many enjoyed and appreciated his piece for the day in the national paper. As a child I often heard strangers remark “So you’re the John Lentell who does that piece for the day!” or “I love your piece, it’s the first thing I read each morning”.

Of course as children and teenagers we were great under-appreciators of the daily piece, except for Christmas Day, 1972. In our pre-pubescent days the family ritual was to gather in my parents’ bed for early morning tea and biscuits, with newspaper to hand. On that day John asked if any of us had read his “piece” yet. I happened to pick up the paper first and found my way to the ‘personals’ column in the classifieds section to find the following listing:

Monday’s Piece

Gour, Ross and Dickon!
The electric train set that I have wanted all my life is in the garage! Happy Christmas.

John Lentell (alias Dad)

LENTELL SOUP

For most of my teenage and young adult years, Dad was financially ‘hard-up’. He struggled by in his eccentric way, often having run out of cash and with no clear plan for how he was going to get through the week. He would smile and say ‘don’t worry, something will come along’, seemingly relaxed and confident in his karma and faith in people. It drove some people nuts. As his children we accepted it, learned to live with it and enjoyed the ambience he created, whilst secretly being thankful we had a secure and reliable home with our mother.

John was a voracious reader of biographies and keenly interested in ‘what made people tick’. He often remarked that his reading kept him sane, and often kept him company when he woke alone (and I’m sure  racked with worry) in the middle of the night. He developed a strong interest in graphology and would often garner the rapt attention of usually attractive or interesting women by “reading their handwriting’.

He espoused and lived by many fine values, which he summarised as “the three C’s” – Candour, Communication and Compassion. I believe he was true to that tenet.

As the years went by, John talked increasingly of grand ideas and aspirations along with promises of financial success and well being. One of the key planks was going to be the biography he had been promising to write for years, ‘Lentell Soup’. It was to be a warts and all, totally candid,  amusing and compassionate account of his life, loves, people and times. And it was going to sell by the million.

The dreams were never realised and the reality was a slow descent into alcoholism, frustration, loss of friends, unrequited love, loneliness and ill health. He died in Harare, Zimbabwe in early 1993.

Dad was a fantastic letter writer and two fingered whiz on the type writer. He religiously carbon copied and filed everything and for the past seventeen years I’ve carried around a box with files of letters he wrote and received as well as a bunch of old, mouldy bundles of carbon copies of his daily piece entries – I’m not sure whether they are all there, but there sure is a lot of them.

I’ve never being quite sure what I’d do with it all, and I thought I’d buried the idea (and hope) of Lentell Soup a long time ago.

My dad would have loved the internet, if only to update frequently his status on Facebook and, no doubt, write a blog or two.

One of his favourite sayings was “Now is the time for all good men to come to the aid of the party”. Well, now is the time. I’ve sorted and filed all those ‘pieces’ and I’m going to start out by committing to read every damn one of them and publish them daily on this blog, starting at the beginning.

Some of this soup is bound to be personal and specific to the man and the times, but not for one second would Dad consider excluding anything.

Other things of his may find their way on into this soup bowl in due course and I invite and hope that a few people who were close to him and are still with us might also contribute recollections and anecdotes.

I hope you find some enjoyment and inspiration in John Lentell’s daily thoughts from forty years ago…

Gour Lentell

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26 thoughts on “About

  1. “Well, now is the time. I’ve sorted them, filed them and I’m going to read every one of those damn pieces by publishing them daily on this blog, starting at the beginning.”

    How very organised of you ;). I’m touched and intrigued, this is an incredibly beautiful thing to do and how fortunate for all of us that get to read his piece’s and musings.

    -One ought, every day, to hear a song, read a fine poem, and, if possible, to speak a few reasonable words. –Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

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  2. Thankyou dear Gour for this huge effort on your part – in sharing with us all more of your Dad’s great mind and thinking.
    This is an” inspiration ” from which we can all learn……

    I had a great admiration of your father John, who came to stay in our family home in Port Elizabeth, South Africa. His obviously English background, intrigued me as a young girl. Now I understand why he got on so well with my father. Dad was a tea and coffee taster of note – so would have known the blend of his tea he was promoting!! from the UK.
    I will be musing over them daily with great interest and enjoyment.

    Celia Murray(van’t Hoogerhuijs)

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    1. Thanks Celia, it’s lovely to hear of your fondness and memories of John.

      I think of him virtually every time I make a cup of tea! He always used to make a point when of ordering “a strong” tea” – “please make sure to put an extra tea bag in the pot..” and so on.

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  3. How lovely. Wellk done for creating such an apt place to publish these for posterity. I feel sure John would approve and I am looking forward to reading them each day.

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  4. Referring to this section above –

    “…was financially ‘hard-up’. He struggled by in his eccentric way, often having run out of cash and with no clear plan for how he was going to get through the week. He would smile and say ‘don’t worry, something will come along’, seemingly relaxed and confident in his karma and faith in people. It drove some people nuts. As his children we accepted it, learned to live with it and enjoyed the ambience he created, whilst secretly being thankful we had a secure and reliable home with our mother.”

    I have to say that it is scary to note that my wife and mother have often described me in a very similar if not an exact description! Come to think about it perhaps i can agree here and there, mentioning it now to my wife she used the words, “…you are exactly like your father in that sense….”

    Thought i would share this….

    P.S. – For those wondering, my mother had somewhat of a ‘platonic’ relationship with John in the early 1980’s which led to her conceiving a son, myself.

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    1. Hey JP,

      I’m going to add a piece about you in the about page, or even thinking of a separate page to tell a bit of your / our story. Hope you don’t mind, let me know if you do!

      This is one way for me to respond adequately to your email back in Aug ’08…

      “the only thing i have of “my father” is a photo and a ‘sentimental’ wine glass of his…”

      “i would like to know the other side of my ‘family tree’ if i can put it that way, it is half of who i am, i do know a bit about where your father was born, where he grew up, the three of you, but thats about it, i guess i want to know more…”

      🙂

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  5. Well done on the transition to Lentell Soup.

    The more personal pieces regarding Johns financial woes and personal tribulations enrich the overall picture.

    I guess it makes the story more real by highlighting the “human condition” in which we all find ourselves.

    All very endearing… thanks

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  6. Hey Gour,

    Looking at those purple jacarandas brings back so many memories. Totally appropriate given that they, like us, were exotics in Harare, a long way from their origins.

    I remember your dad’s strange but always amusing humour. It was always fun spending an afternoon or evening at your place, and he always made my mother feel at home after my father’s death.

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  7. Hi Andrew,

    Thank you for reading and your gracious comments. Hope you are well. I’ll be sure to look you up when I next come your way.

    Cheers,
    Gour

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  8. Very interesting Gour, I only met your Dad once …and he was a very imposing and impressive man to a quiet, shy girl…. I like all the daily sayings hence me visiting your site…

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  9. Gour, I have seen your posts and yet never, until now, understood the background. Fantastic stuff and your Father would be very proud of your efforts on his behalf. Well done and keep up the great work. Cheers, Simon

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  10. Gour,As i was reading i got a glimpse of what zim was then and it sure has changed, may never be again, Thank you for the words of wisdom and wil continue to read as much as i can.
    God bless you for remembering and honouring your father.

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  12. I Remember You Back Then, Gour
    Your 2nd Cousin (Colin) and I met you at Old Honeypots in 1970. I have often thought of getting in touch. On what email can I contact you?

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    1. Hi Ann, I’ve just seen your comment now, sorry it took so long! Would love to get in touch but I’m wary of posting my email address on the internet for all to see. Can you send me a Facebook or LinkedIn contact request? My name is easy to find 🙂

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  13. Ah Gour, I have to tell you I was intrigued seeing “Lentell Soup” on your FB page, so had to have a look and see what it was about. What a fascinating story, told so candidly. I want to say how awesome I think it is that you are posting your Dad’s ‘pieces’. I look forward to reading through everything 🙂 Les

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  14. John was my mentor and advisor between 1972 when I arrived in Rhodesia, throughout my years at Reps (especially in Reps Bar)and right through until I left the country in 1981. It is awesome to be able to “catch up” so to speak. I remember you as a young boy, Gour. Well done, and greetings from Vermont. Michael Mason

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